REJOINDER: We Have Not Abandoned Our Ghanaian Culture

-

Ayi, my neighbour 24, paid me a visit one Saturday morning. In the course of our conversation, he chipped in a subject of very importance to us all as Ghanaians. What makes you a Ghanaian? What makes me a Ghanaian? Ayi made mention of certain common ethics that cut across every household, tribe and ethnic group; “I recall how my mother will ask me to say thank you whenever I was given anything by someone. I was also asked never to point at a place with my left hand when giving directions to people, never to take something or give something to someone with my left hand, show respect to the elderly by offering them our seats in buses or trains” he said. Growing up as a Ghanaian child, most of us experienced this and have grown by it.  

 Ayi claims that today, these values he speaks of seem to be hard to find in our societies.

Yes, I agree but also disagree to the fact that, we Ghanaians have adopted the western culture and have abandoned ours. Ayi, if you are reading this, I will put my mind and lips to rest if you try to understand that society grows, society develops, and society expands. Society will not stay to watch you grow and give birth to your children, and for your children to bear forth children and on and on. NO!

We have not abandoned our Ghanaian culture. Our culture has changed and still changing. Culture is dynamic and for that matter, there is a transformation in our society which is affecting culture and shaping our lives as well.

Herbert Spencer, a British Sociologist took the theory of evolution one step beyond biology and applied it to say that societies are organisms that progress through changes, similar to that of living species. It was his philosophy, that societies will begin simple, and gradually progress into a more complex form. Spencer did not feel the need to correct society because he felt that societies were bound to change automatically. (http://study.com/academy/lesson/herbert-spencer-theory-social-darwinism.html)

Society as small as it looks when formed is like a new born baby. As it grows, it develops new and vibrant features. As the baby crawls, walks, rattles, speak and begin to run errands, there you realize that the baby is changing and maturing. This is exactly how society is like. We are in a Global society, a modernized society where everything is normal. Technology has made life simple for you and you are happy I guess. Why don’t you keep writing letters on telegram and aerogram, and post it to your relatives abroad? Do not expect to see those common practices you used to do as a Ghanaian child in this new society because the society you knew 20 years ago is no more.  

Talking about offering seats to the elderly in our buses has thrown my mind back to a sad moment when I was younger. As a primary 6 pupil, I joined a bus on my way home which was a routine. At a point, the bus became full and people had to stand in the bus in order to get home early. As a respectful boy, I offered my seat to an elderly woman.
Yeeeessss! The bus conductor called; collecting his fair. Unfortunately, I realized that I have misplaced my money which happened to be the last money on me. I courageously told the conductor that I have misplaced my money and apologized, thinking I would be saved. It did not go well for me that day. Words from the lips of most of the passengers in the bus kept piercing my soul like a rapier. I was thrown out of the bus like an outcast. Where were the elders of our society? Where were the elders in the bus? Where was the elderly woman I showed respect to?

AYI! It is time for you to understand the new society in which you are. Embrace it and adjust to it. This is a new society where everything is flexible, simple and normal.
AYI! This is MODERNIZATION. Expect POST-MODERNIZATION.      

Read:
Https://ananistephen.wordpress.com/2016/09/30/the-ghanaian-values-what-makes-you-ghanaian/

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

SURVIVOR’S TALE; The Story of Apallo

-
Image
  EPISODE 1   Four-corners was one of the best soccer games Apallo loved to play when we were kids. Talking of “Mo nky3 ndi” which literally means “Lets share to spend” you will lose if he’s your opponent. You dare not play against him. There’s no way we could fix a football match without Apallo. He was the best. He could dribble almost every player on the pitch. I recollect in one of our serious football matches against another vicinity called “Tebulemu”. Boys in that neighbourhood were scary and fearsome but Apallo dribbled almost every player on the pitch forgetting to score and bypassed the goal post. He could be selfish sometimes and if you are not careful, you will never touch a ball till its half time. Aside being a “ballu gbee”, he was a very hard working guy. “Ma guy, one day I go travel go Yankey oo” he used to say this to me every day. Every afternoon after school, Apallo would visit most of the houses in the neighbourhood to empty their waste bins and carry ...
Read more

DAAVI

-
Image
Daavi told me to be calm and sober Daavi told me to take my studies serious. It’s key to success Daavi promised that everything is going to be fine and easy when I grow up Daavi did not tell me one thing Daavi did not tell me everything Daavi did not tell me it’s going to be tougher as I grow up Daavi told me to focus. “There is more sleep after death my son” she said. “After graduating, you will have all the time to rest. There is more sleep after death” Daavi did not tell me they were all lies. There is no way I could rest after school. Daavi!!! You should have told me. You should have told me that after National Service, I would be hunting for jobs. Daavi did not tell me that a time may come, I will be paying utility bills, school fees, buying school supplies, diapers and etc. That I will grow up with responsibilities upon my shoulders Daavi told me to be punctual at Sunday School Daavi said church is good for me. God w...
Read more

WHO ARE THOSE?

-
Image
Who are those men & women telling us what to do? Who are those stirring up the people and causing them to rise against their masters? Who are those behind the scenes, manipulating what is to be seen? They create a sphere, set the agenda; we end up talking about Who are those people in the public sectors manipulating activities for their gains and selfish interests? They were there. They are there. They will continue to be there. When they retire, they will replace their vacant positions with their relatives. They are the originators of the “WHO YOU KNOW" philosophy. These men at the top do neither work per their job description nor follow the codes they subscribe to, but all they think about is how they will fill their protruded belly with cash. Bribery and Corruption is their breakfast. Who are those bureaucrats and technocrats, thinking they can do whatever they like? These bureaucrats and technocrats are appointed by the government for specialized fun...
Read more